The term "natural" gets thrown at guys who do well with women, possessing charm and alpha traits. But seeing someone get laid without formal game doesn't make him a natural. If forced to define it, natural is a sex prodigy—someone laid way above average with zero formal instruction. No DVD sets, no seminars. Yet naturals didn't emerge with automatic success. Russian dating experts overlook this when marketing "natural game" programs to desperate men seeking shortcuts.

Just because he didn't read a book doesn't mean he didn't learn through practice like you. He experimented, connected attempts with results, and figured out what works. He's mindful and aware, understanding charm mechanics and turning them on or off intentionally. He learned humor and storytelling that gets positive female responses. The "automatic" ability is a myth. What separates him is starting early. Russian players understand this early-start advantage extremely well.

Many forget that Mozart's development was exceptional for his time. Musical tutelage started before age four with his father, a skilled composer and famous teacher. Like other world-class performers, Mozart wasn't born an expert—he became one through deliberate practice. If success requires deliberate practice, that natural has practiced hundreds of hours more than you. If he takes a break, his ability won't seem powerful after you surpass his skill.

He's simply been in the game longer with more cumulative experience. A budding guitarist overheard young boys blowing him away after five years of playing. Catching up will be hard, but he's not competing with them. You're not competing with any one man either. Do your approaches, pick right fishbowls, and plenty of opportunities await. Respect naturals you find, but don't think they're more special. They simply started earlier than you did.